It is not always that
what we want is exactly what we want. If we ever knew what we wanted, we wouldn't run
all those years of lifetime to achieve almost nothing in the end and it happens
in most cases. We are always in search of a better option and a better choice
never remains better when superseded by another selection.
The puzzle this time
is whether our choices can be defined by any law or theory. Is there any theory
which can govern why do we choose a certain option out of all the given
choices? The coincidence takes us to our destination or our choices and in the
last, is there anything like a coincidence?
I would say this is
under the thought process and hypothetical as of now. Our choice depends on our
taste and interest. While making a choice we only see a part of the box whereas
the big picture always remains hidden.
Most likely, we see
the events in two ways, either favorable or unfavorable. If something favorable
happened to me it shouldn't mean that I have made a good choice. And
if something unfavorable happens, it doesn't signify my choice was
not worthwhile. To console ourselves we sometimes say “whatever happens;
happens for a noble cause”. Is the statement justified? I would rather say not
completely, because there is possibility that we may never know why certain
things happened. We name this as coincidence.
The absurd moral
remained is not to repent on our unfavorable events and neither to leave
expecting a good one. That is only what we are left with because we don’t know
what we want and it keeps us contended.